Posted by Hazel Dream on 9:18 AM
Woman is accumulation of all the things that I want and all the things that I don’t want,

The optimistic view of Mother hood for a woman is known to all of us . well the pessimistic is quite interesting , it says that motherhood is a way to achieve a emotional slave for a woman , the child become purpose for her and the extension of her existence and in a way that child looses some of his own individuality . so you cant deny that we all men are in someway extension of our mother and the not the perfect man which we are capable of .
The beast in man can accomplish more then the child .




"The moment a child is born, the mother is also born. She never existed before. The woman existed, but the mother, never. A mother is something absolutely new.”
Bhagwan Shree Rajneesh (Osho)

... so a child too makes the mother who she is...even when he's all grown up.

though its extremely difficult for the child to get rid of the 'mother' stigma - in my opinion..only a woman who really is a MOTHER can do it to ensure the individuality of her child does not get affected with this stigma! i can say this because i am working towards it - m surely not aware if it will work but to create awareness of the roles and to help the child know he is himself - if i dont do it, i am the biggest sinner of all!

wonderful post!

i would also wish to quote Khalil Gibran's words here..

really wish all parents believe and live by...

'children are born out of them..children do not belong to them'

btw, i believe individuality is somethng that blossoms..it cannot be curbed..a mother has to ensure that the child does not let it get blocked ..due to anybody...even if its a parent!

why....why don't you believe in the one of whom you are born...???

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