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The Red queen

Posted by Hazel Dream on 3:01 PM

Ok this book is awesome.
It is really interesting to know why certain traits are considered attractive and how evolution shaped our idea of beauty.

And the most interesting part of this book is the Idea that Its Our Evolutionary Psychology which shapes the basic difference between men and women.

Women tend to choose financial success and stability over looks in a mate
Men tend to choose beauty over all else.
Men generally want to be practical, shrewd, assertive, dominating, competitive, critical, and self-controlled.
Women usually want to be loving, affectionate, impulsive, sympathetic, and
Generous.
One in three men said they had fantasized about having sex with more than a thousand women in their lives.
Women overwhelmingly fantasize about having sex with a familiar partner.
People unconsciously score each other during their social interactions, rating relationship values for the future.

Exercise – Please rate all the men and women that you have come across for your future relationship.
Kindly mention following points
Your idea of a perfect partner
What are you searching in relationship?
1. Emotional Need
2. Financial need
3. How much social acceptance plays a role in your Decision
4. Your Social status (Middle class. Upper Middle Class. Upper Class)
Who is the most familiar person that you fantasize about.

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4 Comments


Interesting post.

As a woman, NO I dont choose financial security over looks and personality. It doesnt mean I'd marry a beggar on the streets. He better be self-sufficient and educated. But that doesnt mean it's te number one criteria. He better have a good heart above all.


**One in three men said they had fantasized about having sex with more than a thousand women in their lives.

LOL not surprised here.


wow we have an exercise too - cool!

**Your idea of a perfect partner

Imperfect perfection that I start to love abt him.


**What are you searching in relationship?

That magical emotional connection. Cant explain further - it just has to happen.


**Who is the most familiar person that you fantasize about.

My most recent ex. I just love the guy.


Keshi.


Hmm Very interesting and Honest.
you will be victimised more :)
No One else got the Courage to look inside .


:)

Keshi.


dont u think so dat before puttin this excercise to others its u who should solve it

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