The Red queen
Ok this book is awesome.
It is really interesting to know why certain traits are considered attractive and how evolution shaped our idea of beauty.
And the most interesting part of this book is the Idea that Its Our Evolutionary Psychology which shapes the basic difference between men and women.
Women tend to choose financial success and stability over looks in a mate
Men tend to choose beauty over all else.
Men generally want to be practical, shrewd, assertive, dominating, competitive, critical, and self-controlled.
Women usually want to be loving, affectionate, impulsive, sympathetic, and
Generous.
One in three men said they had fantasized about having sex with more than a thousand women in their lives.
Women overwhelmingly fantasize about having sex with a familiar partner.
People unconsciously score each other during their social interactions, rating relationship values for the future.
Exercise – Please rate all the men and women that you have come across for your future relationship.
Kindly mention following points
Your idea of a perfect partner
What are you searching in relationship?
1. Emotional Need
2. Financial need
3. How much social acceptance plays a role in your Decision
4. Your Social status (Middle class. Upper Middle Class. Upper Class)
Who is the most familiar person that you fantasize about.